Men who feel they have no success with women usually have friends who are more than happy to let you know just how unsuccessful you are with attracting women. In general you accept his statements because he also tends to be unsuccessful with women as well. Yet, when you decided that you were going to learn how to attract and be successful with women if your friends decided to continue to be unsuccessful with women you will find yourself moving away from your friends. Humans are creatures of habit and when you change your habits unless others change their habits as well you will find yourself living in a different reality than theirs For example before you learned how to attract women when you and your friends went to the club you might quickly walk around the club without talking to anybody and order your drink. However, now you decide to start up conversations with groups of women even if none of them are your "type". For some of your friends it will not be a big deal yet for others it will become huge and they might bother you about it for weeks' maybe even months. As long as you remember what your goal is when you are going out it shouldn't matter what others think. If you are going out to attract women and your friends are doing things that don't help you attract women, consider hanging out with your friends when you just want to relax or really aren't concerned about picking up any women. When it comes time to pick up women go out solo or with a new set of friends who will help you attract women. |
